Monday, 1 October 2007

Help me to blog...

Hi-de-ho neighbour…

As you know, I have begun a blog site (www.perceivethat.blogspot.com), but that means nothing if I don’t have content…

Do you have any ideas/topics that you might like a view on?

Mail me via the comments box below, with your proposals.

Look forward to hearing from you.

Sammi x

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Sammy, I have a good topic for you "why do some women just keep going back?". I have fallen victim to this myself, but a friend is going through this at the moment and it's heartbreaking to watch her waste her time on a man that is just playing with her emotions.

Unfortunately she's fallen into the deadly trap of "friends". In man-talk that means I want you to hang around to make me feel secure just incase my new relationships don't work out, as I can always come back to you. In woman-talk we see it as, he still loves me and just needs time to see that we belong together. RUBBISH. Instead of looking back and living off of dead memories we should concentrate on ourselves. In the blink of an eye he's filled your space whilst your living in the past probably missing your next man - WAKE UP WOMEN.

Ok rant over - discuss :o)

Anonymous said...

Lol, i TOTALLY agree, even though i've never been in that predicament, I think its probably because they're so into the person they can't see them for who they really are - they keep telling you: "i love him"... "you don't know him like i do" etc - (pathetic!).

I had a friend who was a mistress, i personally think he took advantage of her but she "loved" him. She now has moved on, and is still picking up habits from this guy, like she does as she's told otherwise she'll get in trouble. She was 20 he was 30-something, married with 2 children. The boiling point for me was that even though he had promised his mistress he was not sleeping with his wife, his wife ended up pregnant (see how men stay?). He broke her heart and still managed to convince her that he loved her.

Sounds harsh but these women need to wake up n smell the coffee... I can sniff a dog from a mile off lol, if he's not gettin into the vibe as quick as you are then its probably best that you fix up n move on!

Example: Guy tries to sweet talk girl, starting off as friends, then starts calling etc, arranging times to meet up on common ground i.e: church. Set a date, date came and went, guy not to be seen. Girl a little upset then arranges another time to meet up. Guy confirms, attends, but this time leaves before the end and by the time he arrives back the girl had gone.

If this was you, what would you do?

The girl continues to talk to the guy, (for a little while), guy's trying really hard to impress the girl (FYI: this was the girls first relationship, if you could call it that) but unfortunately for him she's wasn't that dumb!

Guy is now HISTORY, there's a new guy in town (lol), girl and new guy are happily in love and are still (after 1 year & coupla months) are in the "honey-moon stage" (",) THE FIRST GUY MISSED OUT!!